Hi, I’m Paloma Schultz, founder of Relational Resilience™ , a facilitator, teacher, and guide dedicated to helping people find strength, compassion, and clarity in times of change.
My own path began far from where I am today. I first practiced law in Brazil, navigating complex systems and advocating for justice. Yet life called me toward deeper healing, both for myself and for others.
As an immigrant, a mother, and someone who has rebuilt more than once, I understand firsthand how conflict, loss, and trauma can shape us—and how much resilience, clarity, and growth can emerge when we transform those experiences.
Today, through Relational Resilience™, I bring together more than a decade of training combining Reiki, Martial Arts, Family & Organizational Constellations, restorative practices, conflict resolution, and trauma-informed self-defense. My work bridges the personal and the collective, supporting both individuals and organizations to heal, integrate, and move forward with strength.
At the heart of my approach is a simple belief: healing is both personal and relational. When we release inherited patterns and learn to meet conflict with compassion, we not only free ourselves, we create ripples of change that strengthen families, workplaces, and communities.
Whether I’m facilitating a constellation, guiding a workshop, or teaching self-defense, my mission remains the same: to help people step into resilience, balance, and authentic connection.
Where strength and compassion meet healing and growth.
Certifications
BRAZILIAN JIUJITSU BLACK BELT 3RD DEGREE UNDER FERNANDO PARADEDA - https://www.drillbjj.com/
FAMILY CONSTELLATION FACILITATOR UNDER SUZI TUCKER -https://www.suzitucker.com/
ORGANIZATIONAL AND BUSINESS CONSTELLATION FACILITATOR UNDER CECILIO REGOJO - https://www.talentmanager.pt/en/
RESTORATIVE PRACTICES & MEDIATION TIER I -https://nypeace.org/
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CONSTELLATIONS
Constellations help uncover the hidden patterns that shape families and organizations, offering powerful pathways to healing, clarity, and growth — whether you are seeking to release intergenerational trauma, restore balance in relationships, or create healthier and more connected teams.
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Trauma-Informed Self-Defense
More than techniques, self-defense is about reclaiming safety, strength, and choice. My Trauma-Informed Self-Defense approach blends practical skills with body awareness and emotional resilience, helping women move from fear into grounded confidence, in everyday life and in moments of challenge.
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Anti-Bullying & Relational Resilience
Bullying leaves lasting scars, but it can be transformed. Through Relational Resilience, I help young people, families, and schools uncover hidden group dynamics, build the courage to speak up, and strengthen bonds of safety and belonging — so communities don’t just stop harm, they grow stronger together.
What People Are Saying
“I started contacting you because I was having difficulty accessing what my soul desires and this process was a deep dive into me. I didn't imagine that I was visualizing desires that were so masked. Thank you for sharing and for being so sensitive when driving, you are amazing.”
R.R
Paloma guided very well throughout the session, and I was very moved when I realized how I looked at my parents, feeling on the same level as them, not as a daughter. It was extremely liberating to heal my complicated relationship with my mother and understand what feelings I had for my father. Now I can say with all my heart that I honor my parents for everything they were and are to me, even though I don't have a relationship that many wanted, I feel free just by recognizing the value them in my life. I am so grateful for Paloma's gift and the work she does, a spirit of great light sharing her gift.
— C.T
“Paloma is passionate and professional facilitator. She is well educated in the realm of systems work, and brings this and other areas of expertises to her ecounters with clients.”